We learn to value sex as a by-product of sharing, commitment, trust and cooperation in a partnership.ġ2.
We become honest in expressing who we are, developing true intimacy in our relationships with ourselves and others.ġ1. We begin to substitute honesty for self-destructive ways of expressing emotions and feelings.ġ0. We begin to accept our imperfections and mistakes as part of being human, healing our shame and perfectionism while working on our character defects.ĩ. We strongly recommends all members read the Basic Text of SLAA, especially Chapters: 4, 5 and 6. We learn to feel comfortable in solitude.Ĩ. Read the literature: All the information you need for a complete recovery from sex and love addiction is in our Basic Text, Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous.
We allow ourselves to work through the pain of our low self-esteem and our fears of abandonment and responsibility. We become willing to ask for help, allowing ourselves to be vulnerable and learning to trust and accept others.ħ. Currently there are no In-Person meetings in South Africa. If you are a newcomer we recommend attending at least six meetings to see if you can identify and relate. As the book explains, the 12-steps of SA and the. Meetings are a special time when sex and love addicts can share their experience, strength and hope and carry a message of recovery to any sex and love addict who may need it. Author: Augustine Fellowship Staff An explanation of how Sex & Love Addicts Anonymous came to be. They are available in many book stores, 12-step shops, and online book sellers. The 12-steps allow the addict to go from simply not acting out to a fulfilling life of sobriety. The following is a list of books that we have found to be very helpful in dealing with addiction and recovery. This involves strict sexual sobriety including no sex with self or outside of marriage. We learn to accept and love ourselves, to take responsibility for our own lives, and to take care of our own needs before involving ourselves with others.Ħ. The White Book offers a 12-step path away from addiction and towards a rich and spiritual recovery. But there are many men in the 12-step rooms of Love Addicts Anonymous or Sex and. We learn to avoid situations that may put us at risk physically, morally, psychologically or spiritually.ĥ. I’m going to send her flowers and maybe book a hotel room at the beach. We surrender, one day at a time, our whole life strategy of, and our obsession with, the pursuit of romantic and sexual intrigue and emotional dependency.Ĥ. We are willing to be vulnerable because the capacity to trust has been restored to us by our faith in a Higher Power.ģ. Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous (SLAA) 21. We seek to develop a daily relationship with a Higher Power, knowing that we are not alone in our efforts to heal ourselves from our addiction.Ģ. Twelve-Step Groups for Sex and Porn Addictsand Co-Occurring Substance Use and Sexual Behavior. According to Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous, once we have stopped our compulsive behaviors and are working the steps in our daily lives, these things will begin to manifest in our lives. I wanted to share some hope with you today.
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